Luscious LaJuana

Recovering southern belle and AlAnon who has learned a little something after three marital unions and a few lovers in between.

1.3.06

The scene of my crime...

This is where it happened. Right outside the Y, February 1, '06.
Today is court day. I gotta get ready to be there by nine. The first day I worked out at the Y, I came out at 3:57, turned my ankle, limped around the corner to my car and saw the meter maid waiting. "Here I am!" I yelled. "I just turned my ankle and can't run--but that's my car and here I am!" I was close enough that I could see her finger move and hear the click................"All you have to do is go to court and tell them you were coming out when I gave you the ticket," she said, smugly tucking her ticket writer back in its case. Dang her, I thought--getting her quota. She didn't have to do that.

But I refuse to give her power over my emotions today. I'll go and state my case and show my ticket reading '4:01pm,' quote the meter maid and see what happens. But whatever happens, the meter maid will not be victorious over my day.
Today I am grateful:

  • that I look to my Higher Power and not to the meter maid for direction today
  • that last night I got coaching on my up-coming trip to visit my son in SC--I'm still drawn to enable him by 'helping' him financially but I choose not to do that. Enabling him keeps him from becoming a fully-integrated, self respecting and contributing human being. He knows which buttons to push--but I have the help and guidance I need from my Higher Power and my Al-Anon friends--all of whom have volunteered their support (and that includes my Higher Power)
  • for the blooming red-bud tree outside my house
  • that with the tools of the 12 Step Program I can change my attitude
  • that I remembered to put my current auto insurance card in my bill fold this morning--real grateful for that

12 Comments:

At 7:48 AM, Blogger Alexis said...

Good luck with the ticket! When something like that happens I always wonder why I'm supposed to be in court or somewhere my schedule wouldn't normally take me. It seems that I always experience something or learn something or get to help some one by those little changes or chance of fate.

 
At 11:39 AM, Blogger Networkchic said...

I really hate parking tickets...why is it that the city thinks they own the streets? Good luck.

 
At 4:07 PM, Blogger Greg said...

Good luck in the courts today!

 
At 5:11 PM, Blogger dAAve said...

It's after 7pm now. Hope you had satisfaction in court. If not, Scott and I will come visit you on weekends excluding holidays. Will bring cookies.

 
At 6:01 PM, Blogger Tab said...

I'd say fight the power and go to jail..what is the worst that could happen? LOL>I'm twisted,I know.JK
Hope all goes well,
try not to stress about it.
Thanks for sharing
I will be on my blog again soon.
Just doing time for not paying my jay walking ticket :(
LOL JK

 
At 6:01 PM, Blogger Tab said...

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At 6:02 PM, Blogger Tab said...

I'lle take those cookie daave :P

 
At 8:41 PM, Blogger Da Gal said...

Cool photo - and wonderful posting. Let us know how it turned out. I hope you enjoy your trip to see your son and I am grateful you have the support of Al-anon and your higher power.

 
At 4:59 AM, Blogger NMAMFQLMSH said...

Well.......how'd court go?
I see you,
JJ

 
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